I was young, I was free
I was all about ME
my books, my room, my friends
independence to speech, cried on tiny things
a hundred hands to hold me
time has changed
I m a Mother, a Wife
plenty on my plate
up early in the morning
ensure no one gets late
grocery, laundry, dishes
all my deeds are for others
I wonder if its for better
those times,
this time
am i selfish to compare to see
I’m just about everything else today – but ME
I don’t think you are selfish. Times change and you still think of you when you take care of your kids. In a way you still care about you but it has a different face now
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True my dear.. it is a story of a lot of indian women
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Not just Indian but Mexicans as well
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Aww… poor thing
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Well at least that’s what I seen with my mom. I am so glad I a a guy but still it hurts to see women being treated that way
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Absolutely.. you are a gentleman Manuel…
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I try to be.
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It is important to take time for yourself and care for you and your needs. Balance is everything something even I have to learn to do better.
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Yes my dear.. balance.. Thanks a lot
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I still haven’t mastered that, putting people before me I have done it for so long it is second nature to me.
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its the nature of most of the women
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I believe it is
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You are not selfish. Its important to think about yourself and give some time to your things. Its good!
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Yes my dear.. Thanks a lot
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Beautiful..👏👌
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Thanks my Dear
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Welcome..😘😊
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I can so relate to this one , although m not someone’s wife or mother , but I do everything you mentioned and I so know the feel and its never selfish to think about our own self… if you are happy you can make everyone happy and the reverse.
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True my dear. Story of every women. Thanks a lot love
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😊
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“We all are glad for what you do, and love you back for it.” Nice piece of artwork!
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Hey, thanks a lot!
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You’re welcome
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Beautiful
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Hey Much Thanks my dear!
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Pleasure
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❤️❤️❤️
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So true! This is what I am doing but this is what actually that gives us an inner peace! 😃
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Yes my dear it does.. but there are times when we feel a little pulled back from.our own selves. And hence, this poem
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Thank you for stopping by my blog. 🙂
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Your most welcome my love…
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A totally selfless selfishness is what I would call it.
Well put
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Thanks a lot Nikhil.. I am sure you can relate this with most of the Indian women
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Yes, I saw it everyday these last two months at home
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sigh!
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Sestina, this is a sad poem because so many women don’t get enough time for themselves. We men must stand in solidarity with women by truly sharing the chores of life. Thank you for your poetry!
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I am extremely glad that there are men like you who understand the pain behind . Its not easy to be selfless. Women, generally even if they dont want, they tend to fall in this trap and later on in life they feel not so good about not doing anything for themselves.
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It is tough to handle different roles being a mother , wife ,daughter but then u are equipped naturally to manage it exceptionally well . I whole heartedly appreciate u for this. But then yes as u told you nothing wrong in being a little selfish and thinking about your dreams ur interests and ur health.. Im sure ur family would support..
And yeah this is for every women who has a similar lifestyle..
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Yes my dear! This is the story of a lot of women and sometimes they tend to feel lonely. But the family support could make it a lot easier.
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And u should be the source of inspiration dear
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Hmm.. trying
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