She felt the hesitance in her daughter’s words
as she spoke to her softly
“Mommy, can I ask you about a secret
my friend at school told me of it yesterday
the daughter’s hesitance made mom, worry a little
she asked her to let her know of her secret
the daughter went ahead asked mom, about a girls periods
what would it mean, how would it feel
when will she start with it, she wanted to know
Mother could sense daughter’s fear as she spoke
to know of the girl’s thing had given her a blow
Mother decided to soothe her child a little
told her it wasn’t a big deal, it was only natural
yes, she still may have a couple of more years
Mother promised to prepare her before she would start
an important thing she told her to make her feel easy
never to be shy, or be ashamed of it
it’s a fact biological and the world knows it all
must she take pride to be a smart girl
Mother was relieved to see her daughter’s relief
as she hugged her & told her, she now felt better
there was now courage, a little strength in her speech
she spoke now confidently, without any fear
Mother made the daughter to promise her one more thing
never would she hesitate to come to her
for any such questions she ever may have
Yes, the mother is preparing her girl to be bold
She takes pride in raising her
with openness of thoughts
Ah!.
I would like to thank you for this poem… The hesitation, the fear, all just ntng now… No one really talk abt it very freely, and u just converted it into poetry. Great…👌👌👏👏👏
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We must. There is no need to feel shy or ashamed of it. It is a part of a girl, gives her the power to give birth. We must not raise our girls feeling secretive about the same. The way we grew up with it was not the correct approach. Girls must feel confident about their girlhood.
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Yes…very true….agree with u…👏👏
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Thanks Arti my dear.. loads of love to you..
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Welcome. Love u too. 😄😊
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Mums are amazing 🙂
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Always.. Thank you Dear Andy, for reading
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my pleasure, as always
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zygs.. I liked this poem a lot..you captured the child feeling wonderfully along with a mothers feeling
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Thanks Akhila… this is every growi.growing girls feeling… how they feel.scared and shy of the fact of facing periods.. plus, i strongly feel, they must feel comfortable and confident about it. There is no need to shy off with such things.. there is no secret about it. The world knows it all.
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you are absolutely right..and I am glad that you shared these.
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Thanks my dear
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Wonderful piece
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Important and great post
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True.. very important…
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Absolutely
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Important and true post. Followed!
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Yes my dear, true and important… Thanks a lot
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My dear friend your poem is very deep and interesting at same time.
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It is my dear.. I guess its time to create awareness amongst people about a few facts…
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And those few facts are ?? My cutie pie ?
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Girls things.. of which they are made to feel scared and secretive
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Woaa…you scared my right now…lol
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Didn’t mean.to… but why scared my dear
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This is one of your best works. Talking about such an important phase of a girl’s life and talking about it in such a strong way, you have set an example to all the women out there to be aware of their bodies and take pride in it!
I remember when my mother told me about it and taught me how to deal with the situation, she spoke of it in such a matter of fact way that i never felt I was going to face a big challenge, until I actually did! Obviously the experience was fearful and painful but I was strong in my head because my mother made no big deal about it, nor did my father. In fact, in our culture, we actually celebrate this ‘change’ in a big way by inviting neighbours and sharing this with them, we celebrate the natural happenings in the most natural way! 🙂
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Yes my dear.. I am.glad that your parents didn’t make a big deal about it. In.our society, girls are not given proper education about such things and they end up being fearful and suffer. In fact, they tend to feel shy about such matters. I strongly believe that it is a biological process and there should be no shame in talking about it. We must make our girls comfortable about their process of growing up and they must take pride for being a girl and a.woman later…
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Absolutely! Changes are biological and they need to be treated as simple things in life and people should learn to teach their daughters the power of these changes in the body. They need to treat their daughters to love themselves and to be proud of being born a woman!
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Cheers to womanhood!!! I have 2 daughters and I am.proud to have them in my life.. they are still young for such changes but I am.sure they will be strong enough when the time comes..
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Well they will draw their strength from you. So if you are strong enough, you ensure that they will be too 🙂
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Absolutely my dear.. Thanks a ton!
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Beautifully written poem on womanhood. Thank you for coming up with such a wonderful poem.
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Thanks to you Megha… it is indeed a subject close to our hearts.
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